Renting with Roommates: How to Avoid Common Conflicts

Renting with Roommates: How to Avoid Common Conflicts

Living with roommates can be a blast—movie nights, shared snacks, and someone to laugh with after a long day. But let’s be real: it’s not always sunshine and chore charts. From thermostat wars to mysteriously disappearing leftovers, sharing a space can get tricky fast. The good news? With a little planning and a lot of communication, you can dodge the drama and keep your living situation friendly, functional, and maybe even fun. Here’s how to avoid the most common roommate conflicts before they turn into full-blown feuds.

Establish House Rules

The first step to peaceful cohabitation? Set clear expectations from the start. A simple conversation can go a long way toward avoiding misunderstandings down the road—but make sure to take the next step. Create a written roommate agreement that outlines house rules everyone agrees on. Be specific:

  • Chores – Who does what, and how often? A calendar or app can keep things fair and consistent.
  • Quiet hours – When is it okay to play music, watch TV, or take phone calls? Is soft music acceptable during quiet time?
  • Guests – Are overnight visitors okay? How often? Are parties allowed, and if so, what’s the protocol for notifying roommates?
  • Shared vs. private items – What’s okay to borrow, and what’s off-limits? This includes food, clothing, toiletries, and electronics.
  • Thermostat settings – Agreeing on a temperature range can prevent passive-aggressive battles over the A/C or heat.
  • Pets – If pets are allowed in your apartment, will you have one? If so, who will be responsible?

And don’t forget the basics of roommate etiquette: knock before entering someone’s room, always ask before borrowing something, and treat common areas with respect.

Manage Shared Expenses

 Money issues can drive a wedge between even the closest roommates. Avoid awkwardness by deciding up front how bills and expenses will be handled.

  • Will one person be in charge of collecting and paying rent and utilities, or will everyone pay their share directly?
  • Are you sharing groceries, or keeping your food separate?
  • Will you pitch in together for shared items like cleaning supplies and toilet paper?

Apps like Splitwise and Splittr can make cost-sharing easy and transparent, so everyone feels they’re treated fairly.

Keep Communication Open

Good communication is the key to any successful relationship—including with your roommates. Make it a priority to talk face-to-face about anything important. Texts are convenient, but they can easily be misread or misunderstood.

Establish a culture of respect and openness by:

  • Scheduling regular check-ins or house meetings.
  • Creating a safe space where everyone feels heard.
  • Practicing active listening—that means making eye contact, withholding judgment, and reflecting back what you hear before responding.

Remember, it’s not just about speaking your mind—it’s also about listening with empathy.

Respect Differences

Roommates often come from different backgrounds, cultures, and belief systems. While these differences can enrich your living experience, they can also be a source of confusion or tension if not approached with understanding. Take time to learn about each other’s customs, holidays, and values. A little curiosity and compassion can help you avoid unintentional disrespect and build a more inclusive and harmonious home.

Handle Conflict the Right Way

No matter how well you plan, conflicts will arise. Maybe one roommate hogs the TV every night, or political debates get a little too heated. Whatever the issue, address it early—before frustration turns into resentment. Here’s how to resolve conflicts respectfully:

  • Don’t avoid the issue. Delaying only makes things worse.
  • Use “I” statements. Instead of “You never clean up,” say “I feel overwhelmed when the kitchen is messy.”
  • Take responsibility. Be mindful of personal patterns that could be adding fuel to the fire. Reflect on how your actions may have contributed to the problem.
  • Work together on solutions. Brainstorm, compromise, and find common ground.

You don’t have to agree on everything—or be best friends—to be great roommates. But a little kindness, accountability, and flexibility can go a long way.

Don’t Forget the Renter’s Insurance

Even the most harmonious households can face the unexpected—like a kitchen fire that damages your personal laptop. That’s where renter’s insurance comes in. Renter’s insurance is like homeowner’s insurance but for tenants. As a start, it protects your personal belongings (that’s right, your landlord’s insurance policy will not cover your belongings) but that’s not all. It’s an important safeguard if you’re found at fault for property damage or injuries at your place (and even around the world). It also can help if you don’t have access to your apartment or home due to a covered loss. Renter’s insurance policies offer (1) personal property coverage, (2) liability insurance, and (3) additional living expenses when your apartment or home is uninhabitable. It’s an affordable way to protect yourself—and your roommates—from unexpected financial stress.

Drama-free roommates and worry-free coverage? Yes, please. Contact your insurance provider today—and happy renting!

 

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Flying with Your Pet

Flying with Your Pet

Whether your pet is a seasoned jetsetter or a first-time flyer, navigating air travel with a four-legged friend takes planning, patience, and know-how. From booking the right seat to ensuring a smooth security check, here’s how to make flying with your pet a paws-itively stress-free adventure!

Cabin or Cargo? Choosing the Best Travel Option

Your pet’s size will determine whether they can fly in the cabin with you or if they must go in cargo. Cargo is not for every pet, and if you must consider it, make sure to check with your vet that it is safe for your pet’s breed, age and health.

Carry-On Pets:

  • Pets in the plane’s cabin are limited to cats and small dogs meeting size requirements.
  • Your pet must remain in a carrier under the seat in front of you for the flight.
  • Some airlines allow you to purchase an extra seat for your pet carrier. You still will need to keep your pet in the carrier, and you also will need to place the carrier under the seat during takeoff and landing.
  • Choose a window or aisle seat which will have the most room to stow your pet’s carrier under the seat. Avoid emergency exit rows and bulkhead seats.
  • A pet fee applies. Check with the airline for the exact amount.

Cargo Travel:

  • Larger dogs must fly in cargo, which is the space at the bottom of the plane where luggage is stored.
  • While cargo is ventilated, it is not temperature controlled, and airflow is not the same as in the cabin. Pets may not be allowed in cargo during extreme heat or cold.
  • Short-nosed breeds like bulldogs, pugs, and Persian cats are at higher risk for breathing issues and should never fly in cargo.
  • Pets must be placed in cargo-approved kennels. Check your airline for specifications.
  • While most pets travel safely in cargo, poor ventilation or mishandling can pose risks.
  • Most airlines are required to report on companion animal safety. Check your airline’s safety record before booking your pet in cargo.
  • A pet fee also applies.

Service Dogs:

  • Service dogs are an exception to the pet traveling policies. They are allowed to be out of a carrier but must not block the aisle. Generally, they are not allowed on seats.
  • To qualify as a service dog, they must be fully trained and certified to assist a person with a disability.
  • Emotional support animals are considered pets and not service dogs. They must follow standard pet travel guidelines.
  • Service dogs will usually fly free of charge.

Booking Your Flight

  • Research quarantine, vaccine, and other restrictions for your destination so you will have the right paperwork.
  • Always communicate with the airline in advance. You don’t want any surprises.
  • Book direct flights. There is less chance of handoffs going wrong.
  • For cargo, if traveling in the summer, pick early morning or evening flights to avoid the hottest parts of the day. In winter, book midday flights to avoid the cold.

Prepping Your Pet for Takeoff

Before your trip, make sure your pet is in tip-top shape for travel. Here’s how:

  • Vet Visit: Schedule a checkup to ensure your pet is healthy enough to fly. Some destinations require a health certificate issued within 10 days of travel.
  • Skip Sedatives: Tranquilizers can affect breathing. Ask your vet for guidance on whether you should use them. You also can consider pet calming chews with melatonin or chamomile. For nervous cats, try pheromone sprays to help ease anxiety.
  • Microchip & ID: Make sure your pet’s microchip info is up to date and their collar includes both your home address and temporary travel address.

Helping Your Pet Adjust to Air Travel

 Crate Training: Get your pet comfortable with their travel carrier well in advance. Reward them with treats and praise.

  • Crowd Exposure: Airports are busy and noisy! Take your dog to a crowded, dog-friendly area to get them used to similar sights and sounds.
  • Practice Security Checks: TSA requires pets to go through security outside of their carrier. Practice taking your pet in and out calmly.

Packing List: Don’t Forget These Essentials

 Proof of vaccinations and vet contact info

  • Microchip number and pet license
  • Airline-approved carrier (waterproof & spacious enough for your pet to stand, turn, and lie down)
  • Collapsible water bowl
  • Small bag of food in case of delays
  • Treats and chew toy (helps with pressure changes)
  • Poop bags and pet wipes for clean-ups
  • Extra collar and leash
  • A recent photo of your pet (for ID purposes)

Pro Tip: For pets traveling in cargo, freeze water in the collapsible water bowl. This will help prevent spills. By the time your pet is thirsty, the water will have defrosted. You can also attach a water bottle dispenser.

Airport Tips: Navigating the Terminal with Your Pet

 Strange sounds, sights and smells can be challenging even for the most well-trained pet. Changes in diet and water also can affect your pet. Here are some ways to navigate specific issues with traveling.

 Skip Breakfast? A light stomach may help prevent nausea—check with your vet.

  • Pre-Flight Potty Break: Ensure your pet relieves themselves before heading to check-in.
  • Cargo Flyers: Label crates with LIVE ANIMAL in large letters and add arrows to indicate the upright position. Attach a photo of your pet, and line the bottom with towels. This will help absorb any liquids if there are accidents. You will be dropping off your pet at the check-in counter along with your luggage.
  • Cabin Flyers: Be prepared to remove your pet from the carrier for TSA screening. Once through security, locate pet relief areas before boarding.
  • Alert the Flight Crew: If your pet is traveling in cargo, notify a flight attendant so they’re aware. They should be able to confirm that your pet is safely on board.
  • Meet Your Pet: The airline will direct you to a place where you can meet your pet and show them some love following your flight.

Are you flying with small children, too? Check out our blog on Flying with Kids.

Travel with Peace of Mind

Finally, don’t forget to protect your fur baby with pet insurance for added peace of mind, and to save on your vet bill. Remember, you can easily add pet insurance from Pet’s Best to your California Casualty auto or home policy.  Find out more about what pet insurance can cover by talking with a California Casualty customer service representative today.

 

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How to Winterize Your Vehicle

How to Winterize Your Vehicle

As temperatures drop and roads become icy, taking steps to winterize your car ensures you stay safe and stress-free. From checking your battery to swapping out wiper blades, preparing for the season is all about protecting yourself and your ride. Ready to keep your car in peak performance through the cold months? Let’s get started!

 

Take care of your tires.

You depend on your tires to grip the road. Make sure they’re in the best condition to help you maneuver safely.

  • Check the tread. Tread gives you traction, and worn tread will take longer to stop on slippery roads with ice and snow. Put a penny into one of the grooves with Lincoln’s head facing you and upside down. If you see all his head, your tread depth is dangerously low. Replace your tires.
  • Rotate your tires. Tires don’t wear evenly. The front tires usually have more wear on the outside edges, because they lean when you turn right or left. The front tires also hold the weight of the engine. To help your tires wear evenly, you need to rotate them every 5,000-7,000 miles.
  • Align your tires. If you’ve ever taken your hand off the wheel while driving, and notice your car veering toward the side, you need an alignment. You need to align your tires to keep them pointing straight ahead. You can easily knock them out of alignment by going over a pothole. If you don’t align your tires, you can experience steering problems, poor fuel economy, and uneven tire wear.
  • Consider snow tires. If you live in a place where snow is heavy, you may wish to switch to snow tires. Their softer rubber remains flexible in cold weather and helps them grip the road. Their wider grooves also are better at repelling water and gaining traction in snow.
  • Check your tire pressure. As the weather changes, you will notice corresponding changes in your tire pressure. That’s because air expands as it gets hotter, which raises the pressure. It contracts as it gets colder, which lowers it. In cold weather, tire pressure can decrease about 1 psi for every 10-degree drop in temperature. That’s why it’s important to check your tire pressure when the weather changes, in extreme heat and cold, and adjust as needed.

Take care of your fluids.

Cold weather affects your car’s essential fluids.

  • Change your oil. Cold weather thickens engine oil. That makes it harder for parts to turn. It also puts a strain on the starter and the battery. Choose a lighter weight oil for winter. Check your owner’s manual for the proper oil weight.
  • Top off coolant (antifreeze) Coolant prevents your engine from overheating or freezing. Check the reservoir tank (not the radiator) and ensure the level is between the “min” and “max” lines. Use the correct coolant specified in your owner’s manual, as using the wrong type can damage the engine. Mix coolant with water in the ratio recommended in your manual.
  • Refill windshield fluid. We use our windshield wipers a lot in the snow and rain. Make sure you have enough wiper fluid. Use a formula designed for low temperatures to avoid freezing. Keep an extra gallon in your car for emergencies.
  • Change differential fluid if needed. This fluid helps to lubricate the gears and helps the wheels rotate at different speeds. It should be changed every 30,000 to 60,000 miles as the fluid breaks down over time.

Take care of your car’s components.

Cold weather can wear down critical parts of your vehicle. Getting your vehicle checked out with routine maintenance helps you stay on top of things.

  • Test your battery. Cold temperatures slow down chemical reactions in the battery, reducing power. Check for corrosion and ensure it holds a charge. Replace old batteries to avoid breakdowns.
  • Inspect belts and hoses. Cracks or wear in belts and hoses can lead to failures in cold weather. Address any issues immediately.
  • Check your brakes. On slippery winter roadways, your brakes must be in good condition. Check and make sure your pads are not worn down. Otherwise, it will take longer to stop and could cause an accident.
  • Check your spark plugs. Worn spark plugs can make your car more difficult to start in the winter. Look for signs of wear like carbon buildup, a damaged ceramic insulator, or oil deposits. Check your owner’s manual for recommended replacement intervals.
  • Change your wiper blades. Snow, salt and slush builds up on your windshield. Your wipers need to work well. If your wipers look dry and feel brittle, if they make noise, or if they leave streaks, you will want to replace them. You can also get winter wipers which have a rubber edge and are heavier than regular wipers. A heavier weight makes the wiper motor work harder so make sure to remove them come spring.
  • Change the cabin air filter if needed. A dirty filter can cause your HVAC system to perform poorly. It can slow down defogging of your windows, and not screen airborne contaminants. Change the filter at recommended intervals.

Equip your car with emergency essentials.

Winter driving can be unpredictable, so pack for the unexpected.

  • Stay warm. Include hand warmers, blankets, and a winter emergency kit.
  • Be ready for snow and ice. Make sure you have an ice scraper and snow brush.
  • Bring along cat litter. Keep a bag of cat litter to sprinkle if you get stuck in the snow or on a slick patch. The extra weight will also increase your tire’s grip on the road.
  • Stay fueled. Fill up your gas tank every time it hits the halfway mark. That way if you’re stranded, you’ll have gas to run the heat and keep you warm until help comes.
  • Stock up. Keep bottled water and snacks handy. In case of a breakdown, that will help.

Finally, protect your vehicle with the right insurance for added peace of mind. Safe travels this season.

 

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How to Make Your Car Last Longer

How to Make Your Car Last Longer

Your car is more than just a mode of transportation; it’s a companion on life’s journey. But like any good friend, it needs a little care to keep it going strong. Whether you’re a road trip enthusiast or someone who relies on their wheels for daily commutes, extending the life of your vehicle makes sense. So, buckle up as we explore some simple yet effective ways to make your car last longer.

Ditch the heavy keychain.

When you put the key into the ignition, a heavy keychain can drag it down. That puts pressure on the tumblers inside the ignition. Over time, that can cause the ignition switch to fail. If your car keys share space with lots of other keys, consider a car-only keychain.

Watch for this warning sign: your key sticking in the ignition when you turn on the car. Get the ignition replaced before it leaves you stranded.

Use your parking brake.

The parking brake has an important job: to keep your car from rolling when parked. However, you don’t just need a parking brake on an incline; you need it whenever and wherever you park. Parking brakes help take the stress off the transmission. In addition, if not used, your parking brake can corrode over time. This can lead to expensive repairs. So, engage that parking brake whenever you park.

Don’t idle in the driveway.

It’s not a good idea to idle your car for long periods of time. Not only does it waste gas, but it can also do some damage. During idling, the oil pressure may not send oil to every part of the engine. The engine also won’t operate at its peak temperature. That means there could be incomplete fuel combustion, soot deposits on cylinder walls, contaminated oil, and damaged components.

Be mindful of moisture.

Moisture can do a lot of damage to your vehicle. Water that seeps into your car’s body panels can cause rust. Extreme heat and humidity can reduce your car’s battery life. Moisture inside your car can also lead to mold and mildew. Finally, salt water can damage your car’s paint. Don’t drive through water, which can expose your undercarriage to unnecessary moisture. Clean corroded battery terminals if you live in humid areas. Make sure to keep your car dry and as cool as possible during the hot, humid months to avoid expensive future repairs.

Change the oil and the air filter.

If your oil is dirty, it can affect the components in your engine. Without proper oil changes, your engine could seize up, which will cost you more than nearly any other car repair. Most manufacturers suggest changing the oil every 5,000-7,500 miles. Newer vehicles will alert you when you need an oil change. You also need to change the air filter, although not as often as the oil. The air filter removes dirt and debris, which also can harm your engine. Change your air filter every 15,000 to 20,000 miles.

Help your tires wear evenly.

Tires naturally wear down over time. Keep them working well by inflating them at the recommended pressure. That will help prevent blowouts. Tires also wear unevenly; that’s why it’s important to rotate them every 6 months or 6,000-8,000 miles. Otherwise, your tires will wear out faster and have to be replaced.

Wash your car.

Cars get dirty, and that dirt buildup is more than cosmetic. It can slowly destroy your paint, which can lead to rust. That’s why washing your car is important. How often depends on the weather, whether you park outside, and if your car is exposed to pollen, bugs, sap from trees, salt on winter roads and more. Wash biweekly or as needed and wax every month or so.

Prevent pests.

If you leave food and wrappers in your car, you could attract mice and bugs. They in turn can do damage that requires repairs. Clean up all food items, wrappers, and containers. Block broken seals or holes where they can get in. If you suspect pests, have your upholstery professionally cleaned.

Protect the interior.

Leather can become dry and brittle after years of exposure to the sun. Apply a conditioning solution routinely to help prevent cracks and keep seats in good condition. Use a windshield shade to help slow upholstery fading.

Don’t fill your tank if you see the tanker.

Gasoline tankers can stir up sediment as they refuel the tanks at gas stations. That could cause you to get dirty gasoline, which can clog your fuel filter or fuel injector. Avoid filling up at a station when it is being filled by a tanker. You’ll avoid a potential expensive repair.

Avoid bad driving habits.

Certain driving habits can reduce the lifespan of your car. Don’t brake hard all the time, it can lead to deterioration of your brake pads. Don’t turn at high speeds; that’s hard on your tires. Don’t strongly accelerate when the engine is cold. Don’t rev your engine when your car isn’t properly warmed up. Avoid potholes and running over curbs which can harm your tires. Good driving habits can help reduce the need for expensive repairs.

Pay attention to maintenance lights.

Don’t skip routine maintenance. It may cost you now but save you money in the long run.

If you have a newer car, it will let you know when it needs service. When the maintenance light is on, schedule your appointment. However, you can look out for things, too. If you hear an unusual noise, take your car in. Watch for puddles under your car. It’s better to get ahead of potential problems than to pay for them as they become big issues.

Keep your car protected.

You may do everything right but accidents still happen, including some that could total your car. Your car is one of your greatest investments. Protect it with the right auto insurance for added peace of mind.

Check out our blog on Pro Tips to Keeping Your New Car Ageless for more tips.

 

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Beating the Winter Blues: Seasonal Affective Disorder

Beating the Winter Blues: Seasonal Affective Disorder

If the winter months get you down, you’re not alone. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) affects millions of people, and it’s more than just the winter blues. It can affect your mental and physical health.

Here’s what you need to know about SAD, including how to recognize signs and symptoms, some available treatments, and how to help those around you if you think they suffer from this condition.

What is SAD?

Seasonal Affective Disorder is a type of depression. It is more than feeling sad or unhappy, and it is not a condition that can be wished away. Symptoms start in the late fall and continue into the winter months. They are most severe during December, January, and February. Generally, SAD resolves itself during the light-filled days of spring. (There also is a form of summer SAD, thought to be caused by the heat, humidity, and allergies. Summer SAD is much less common.) SAD usually starts in adulthood. It is rare among people who are under age 20. It is more common among women than men.

What causes SAD?

The exact cause is not known, but it is thought that SAD is linked to reduced exposure to sunlight. Light stimulates the hormone, serotonin, in our brain which makes us feel happy. Increased darkness on the other hand prompts the brain to make more melatonin, causing sleepiness and reduced energy.

What are the signs of SAD?

SAD can affect how you feel, think, and behave. The symptoms are persistent and can be severe. While not every person experiences all the symptoms, here are some common ones for winter SAD.

  • Losing interest in activities: If the activities that usually interest you lose their appeal, that’s a symptom of a low mood or depression.
  • Low energy and sluggishness: You may find it difficult to muster the energy to do the most basic tasks. You might experience extreme fatigue.
  • Sleeping too much: You find yourself sleeping more than usual, and you have difficulty waking up. You may experience daytime drowsiness.
  • Appetite changes: You crave the mood and energy boosting comfort of carbs. However, overloading on carbs can lead to weight gain.
  • Difficulty concentrating: You may be unable to focus and have trouble thinking clearly.
  • Negative thinking: You may feel hopeless, worthless, or even suicidal. You might be anxious and irritable.

What are options for treatment?

Without treatment, SAD can last months. However, most people who seek help can see improvement in a matter of weeks. The symptoms of SAD may look like other mental health conditions, so it’s important to get a diagnosis. A doctor or mental health professional can diagnose SAD and offer options for treatment. Treatments may include:

  • Light therapy: This involves sitting in front of a special light in a lightbox or panel for a specific amount of time each day.
  • Sunlight exposure: Spending more time outside during daylight hours can help. Consider a daily walk or outdoor exercise.
  • Psychotherapy: Talk therapy can help you to understand SAD and manage its symptoms from anxiety to depression.
  • Medications: ln some cases, antidepressants may be prescribed to correct the chemical imbalance caused by SAD.

Here are some ways to help prevent SAD.

You can take steps to prepare for winter SAD, which may help to reduce its effects.

  • It may be tempting to go into hibernation mode when it starts to become dark early. However, that can perpetuate the feelings of depression. Instead, plan activities to stay social. This will help to boost your mood.
  • Exercise regularly. If you can exercise in the sunlight, that’s a double boost.
  • Eat a healthy balanced diet. If you’re tempted by carbs for a quick energy boost, go for complex carbohydrates instead. For example, choose whole grain breads and fruits over sweets and chips.
  • Maintain a consistent sleep routine. Avoid excessive amounts of caffeine and alcohol, especially before bed.

Finally, seek professional help if your symptoms persist. SAD is treatable, and fortunately, does not last forever.

 

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