The Monsters & The Weak
It’s not a big secret around here that we think pretty highly of law enforcement. It’s hard not to have the utmost respect for people who risk their lives to protect yours.
So today, I am so honored to talk about a blog that is all about taking care of the LEOs who take care of us. As one editor puts it, it’s about helping cops “survive the job” …
Today’s Top LEO Blog Finalist is…. (drum roll please)
Before I spent a lot of time on CopsAlive, I thought I knew the risks that LEOs faced. In my head, they all basically revolved around criminals. But LEOs face so many dangers that weren’t even on my radar.
Luckily, they were on CopsAlive’s radar. The site takes the time to discuss:
The site is such a great resource for LEOs and their families. We wanted to make sure our network of LEOs knew about all of the relatable, reliable information on CopsAlive and about the great conversations the site encourages.
Of course, we also wanted to know about the hero in blue behind the blog. So here’s our interview with a CopsAlive editor, a retired 23-year police veteran who now edits CopsAlive.com and provides training to police officers and their agencies.
What is CopsAlive?
CopsAlive.com was created to gather ideas, tips, suggestions and best practices from cops to help other cops survive their career. Many people who serve, and who have served, in law enforcement bear the scars of the cumulative stresses that accompany the career. The Law Enforcement Survival Institute (LESI) and CopsAlive.com work tirelessly to assemble strategies, tactics and best practices to help anyone working in this profession successfully survive their career. LESI and CopsAlive.com work with agencies and families to create environments that support healthy, happy and effective law enforcement professionals both on the job and at home.
What would you say is the mission of the blog?
Our mission of “Saving the Lives of the People Who Save Lives” extends from our Armor Your Self™ training seminar to the Information, strategies and tools available on our website to help cops plan for happy, healthy and successful careers, relationships and lives.
How did it all get started?
When I retired from law enforcement, I was really burned out and didn’t want anything to do with cops or the negativity of law enforcement. Then five years ago a friend of mine, who had quit police work to pursue a family business, killed himself. He was only 38-years-old and I thought “what a waste”, he and everyone else in law enforcement deserve better. So I started looking at all the statistics on law enforcement suicide and all the other issues that take their toll on cops. This career is toxic, and we as a profession need to do something about that. For my part, I produce a blog at www.CopsAlive.com and invite other people to contribute information that will help cops and anyone in law enforcement survive the job.
That’s incredible. How long ago did you start it?
CopsAlive.com was launched on Law Day, May 1, 2008 which is now just over four years.
What’s your favorite thing to write about?
I love hearing the stories about all the heroic things people in law enforcement do every day.
Least favorite?
I hate hearing about the cops who have risked their lives and been injured or traumatized doing their job and now they are suffering and their departments don’t know what to do with them so they just throw them away. This needs to stop. We say that we “always take care of our own,” so we had better walk our talk. If we say that “no one gets left behind” then we had better create systems to help prevent injuries and trauma and also have systems in place to support those who are injured or are suffering from the traumas of this job.
How would you dsecribe the community that has formed around CopsAlive?
My blog’s community is very diverse, made up of people connected to law enforcement from around the world. They are cops, family members, criminal justice students, and cadets in the academy. They are police officers, sheriff’s deputies, parole officers, corrections officers, detectives, probation officers, dispatchers, CSI’s, K-9, SWAT, Traffic cops and others from just about every facet of this job. There are also survivors, parents, vendors and people in support roles. They are people from within the law enforcement, security, military and intelligence fields, and most of all they are people who care about helping one another. Just like everyone else in the world, they do stupid things that make me laugh, but they also inspire me with the many great things they do, many times at great sacrifice to themselves and their families.
What has been your best experience as a blogger?
Based upon the comments, emails and phone calls that I receive, I really believe that I am making a difference. I know that I have saved a couple of lives and made a few more a little better. Most of all I get the drive to do more and work harder because there is a lot of work to do, and it will be a long time before my work is finished.
Four years in, what have you learned?
I have learned that the people in and around law enforcement can be some of the most generous and noble people on the planet. I have also learned that many in our profession are suffering in silence, and I believe that we must do something to help them and insulate everyone in this profession against the toxic effects of the stresses of this job.
Suffice it to say that there are a lot of great men and women working in law enforcement that do heroic things routinely, but many times those acts take a toll on the officers and their families. This is a profession that believes that we must be brave, superhuman and stoic. Until I can get people to admit that they need help, I cannot share their stories and risk that they would not be supported by their peers or agencies.
If CopsAlive is voted our Top LEO Blog, to which charity will you donate your $200 winnings? Why?
I would choose S.O.L.E.S. or Survivors of Law Enforcement Suicide because I think these survivors are so often overlooked. S.O.L.E.S. needs to support the families that have to live with the death of their loved ones who were just as brave and true as any other cops, but who took their own lives and were perhaps not celebrated as heroes.
Where else can we keep up with you on the web?
We have created a new site at www.PoliceWellness.com which is the home of our Total Policing Wellness Project. The Total Wellness Project is a community effort to ensure the wellness of police officers around the world by gathering tips, suggestions, stories, strategies and resources from law enforcement officers to help other cops survive this career. Once we have enough information to assemble and edit into a special report on the concept of total wellness for police officers we are going to publish it for free to everyone in law enforcement as an electronic special report on the Internet.
For those who prefer recording videos instead of writing we have also just created www.YouTube.com/SurvivalTipsForCops as a means of gathering video tips from cops for other cops to help them survive.
We are also on Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn.
We are so proud to profile a blog that is doing so much to help our heroes. To check out all of CopsAlive’s posts, click here. To vote for them as a Top Law Enforcement blog, click here!
Today’s featured blogger has one of the most interesting journeys into the Law Enforcement world… we just have to share.
First things first. Her name is Suzie Ivy…
When Suzie was 45-years-young, she decided to enter the police academy. Now, I can’t speak for you guys, but I gotta say I think that is pretty incredible.
And that was just the beginning. Suzie was also the first female officer in her town (girls rule!). Not even two measly years later, she was a bona fide detective.
Best part of it all?
Suzie’s ongoing journey is chronicled. Head to her blog and you can hear all the ups and downs on her road to mid-life-restructuring.
In the meantime, we wanted to know more about Ms. Ivy as a blogger! Check out our interview with her…
So, Suzie, how would you describe your blog?
My blog is the happy, sad, and hilarious side of law enforcement.
What do you hope to accomplish with ‘The Bad Luck Detective’?
To make people see police officers as real people. We are at times good, bad, and ugly but we are human. We laugh and cry the same as everyone else.
Why did you start it?
I needed a way to relieve stress from work. I’m a detective specializing in sex crimes. Quite often my cases get me down and I needed a place away from work where I can connect with people who help me find reasons to laugh.
When was that (starting the blog)?
Two years ago.
What’s important about the blog- to you as a writer?
I feel blogging has saved my sanity many times and it’s important for everyone in law enforcement to have an outlet where they can by honest and share their true feelings. It’s a job we can’t help but take home and if we don’t find a way to escape for a short time our careers will end too soon or we will be miserable. A life balance is key to our success.
Do you have a favorite–or least favorite– thing to write about?
My favorite thing to write about is anything that will make someone laugh. It’s usually at my own expense because, like all cops, I make stupid mistakes. My least favorite thing to write about is officers dying in the line of duty, sex crimes and domestic violence. I’ve written these posts because we need more public awareness.
Has anything surprised you in this blogging experience?
First, the fact that people actually read and follow my blog is amazing and exhilarating. So many of the comments I receive from readers put a smile on my face or make me laugh out loud. By sharing my less than stellar moments in LE, readers are willing to share theirs. Every comment gives me inspiration.
What has been your best experience as a blogger?
Meeting new people and making wonderful friends is beyond a doubt the highlight of blogging.
Have you learned anything?
That it’s okay to share sad times too. When I first started my blog, I was determined to always make people laugh. I’ve found that when I share my unhappy moments, my readers offer incredible support.
Can you share with us something funny about yourself?
It doesn’t matter how busy I am at work, I’m called to catch snakes. I have no fear of them but most of the officers I work with are petrified when it comes to these amazing creatures. I slid a small garden snake under the bathroom door to get a fellow officer back for a practical joke he played on me. He stood on the toilet screaming until we got the door unlocked and I collected the snake. I’m sure retribution will come my way and I waiting.
So, Suzie, if you win the Battle of the Blogs, to which charity will you donate your $200 winnings and why?
100 Club of Arizona. They don’t just provide support for the families of fallen officers they provide grants to police agencies to help with safety equipment and keep us alive. They are awesome!
We loved learning more about the amazing Miss Suzie Ivy almost as much as we love reading her blog. This Bad Luck Detective is also on Twitter and Facebook. To read her blog CLICK HERE! To Vote for her blog, CLICK HERE!
September 11, 2001 was day that would have been remembered for its beautiful weather. Then, at 8:46 a.m., 5 hijackers crashed American Airlines flight 11 into the World Trade Center’s North Tower, and our worlds changed forever.
In the chaos that followed, the first responders of New York City and Washington, D.C. rushed headlong into the burning buildings in an attempt to save the people trapped inside, despite knowing the immense danger they were placing themselves in. Over the course of that day, a total of 411 first responders were killed – 341 firefighters, 60 police officers, and 10 paramedics.
We wanted to take some time today to share some sites with stories to remember and honor these heroes, check out the links below to read more about a few of the people who went above and beyond the call of duty on that day:
5 Heroes to Remember
Firefighters Remember the Spirit of a Fallen Hero
List of Fallen Firefighters
NYPD Angels – Moira Smith’s Story