There’s nothing quite like prom and graduation season—the photos, the dresses and tuxes, the flowers, the celebrations. But while your teen may be focused on finding the perfect outfit or planning the after party, you’re likely thinking about something else entirely: their safety on the road.
Here are some tips to help your teen navigate prom, graduation, and all the celebrations in between—safely.
1. Make “leaving early” a habit.
Encourage your teen to leave at least 10 minutes earlier than needed—more if weather conditions are poor. This reduces the urge to speed and gives them time to react calmly to traffic or detours. If they’re heading to the same event as many others, they might also encounter fewer cars and pedestrians if they beat the rush.
2. Limit passengers.
It’s fun to pile into a car with friends, but the more people you have, the more distractions the driver encounters. Set limits on how many friends can ride with your teen and remind them that safety comes before socializing.
3. Always buckle up.
Seat belts are simple but lifesaving. Make sure your teen—and everyone in their car—buckles up before the engine starts. Reinforce the message that seat belts are non-negotiable, even for short trips.
4. Phones down, eyes up.
Phones are one of the biggest distractions for drivers, especially teens. Talk with your teen about putting their phone away while driving. There are apps that can silence notifications, send automatic replies, and even block texts while the car is in motion. Sharing their location with you is also a smart move in case you need to reach them in an emergency.
5. Minimize all distractions.
Texting isn’t the only distraction. Eating, drinking, adjusting the music, or checking makeup can all take attention off the road. Remind your teen to stay focused and wait until they’re parked to multitask.
6. Don’t drive while drowsy.
With finals, late-night celebrations, and packed schedules, your teen may not be getting enough sleep. Driving tired is just as dangerous as driving under the influence. If they feel themselves nodding off, they should pull over in a safe place and rest before continuing.
7. No drinking and driving—ever.
This one may seem obvious, but it bears repeating. Teens should never get behind the wheel after drinking or using any substance. Have an open conversation about peer pressure and agree on a “safe word” they can use if they need you to pick them up—no questions asked.
8. Keep an emergency kit in the car.
Whether it’s a flat tire, dead battery, or a minor fender bender, your teen should know what to do in case of a car emergency. Pack a basic kit with a flashlight, jumper cables, water, a first-aid kit, and emergency contact numbers. Make sure they know how to use everything in it. Teach your teen basic vehicle care and warning signs.
9. Be accident-ready, just in case.
Teens are often accident-prone because of their inexperience behind the wheel. Make sure your teen knows what to do if they’re ever in a crash. Go over the basics together: stay calm, check for injuries, move to safety, call 911, and exchange information with the other driver. Keeping an emergency kit in the car and insurance details in the glove box can also help them feel more prepared and confident.
10. Set a curfew.
More than 40% of fatal crashes involving young drivers happen between 9 p.m. and 6 a.m. It’s not just the challenge of driving in the dark—late-night trips are often social outings where distractions and peer pressure can run high. Even rule-following teens can be tempted to take risks. Setting an earlier curfew than your state requires can help keep your teen safer. Bonus: Offer to drive them and pick them up for late night outings.
11. Control the keys.
When teens have to ask for the car, it naturally opens the door for conversation. It’s a built-in pause that gives parents a moment to check in—about where they’re headed, who they’ll be with, and when they plan to return. It’s also a subtle reminder that driving is a privilege, not a right, and that responsibility comes with it. Keeping the keys in your hands helps reinforce expectations and encourages accountability.
12. Monitor risky behavior.
Consider a monitoring device or app that can track risky behaviors such as speeding, abrupt acceleration and sudden braking. You can also keep tabs on your teen’s location with GPS tracking. Some systems have a silent alarm so your teen can signal SOS if they feel unsafe.
Finally, this is a good time to review your insurance. Is your teen properly covered? Have you discussed all the ways you can save with a teen driver? Ensuring your policy is up to date can give both of you peace of mind during this high-risk season.
Prom and graduation are once-in-a-lifetime milestones, and you want your teen to enjoy them to the fullest—safely. Start the conversation early, model safe driving behavior yourself, and let them know you’re always just a phone call away. Your guidance and trust go a long way in helping them make smart decisions behind the wheel.
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